Sagar-Nadi

Maine hoon sagar khare pani ka,
wo nadi meethe pani ki,
khud ka wajud mitakar
aapne jeevan ki sarthakta puri karti hui...
milne chale aati hai mujhe se,
maine bhi us k balidan ko yun hi nahi jane deta,
suraj ki garmi mein tap kar badal ban har jagah barasta hoon,
apne mohabat ko ek nayi ucchai dene k liye....

Stranger Sister

Sometimes we meet some strangers on our way who do something for us that's keep our mind ticking lifelong. One such incident happened with me on 17/05/2011.
I had went to Aurangabad to see my elder brother, While coming back, I took the Aurangabad-Pune bus, As I have to go to Narayanagaon I got down at Ahmednagar by-pass.The bus for Narayanagaon was from Tarakpur bus station. I was standing at the side of highway to ask somebody the way to Tarakpur bus station. Suddenly One lady around 35-40 years in age on her two wheeler came to me, I asked her the way to bus station. She told me the direction as well as offered me that she can drop me there.
But I told her that I will manage, instead She helped me crossing the road and stopped one auto rickshaw, told the driver the destination and paid the auto fare. When I said I will pay the fare, she said “Behen ne de diya to kuch hota hai kya.”
I was so dumb struck by that sentence that I could just manage saying thank-you not even asked her name. But the face of my stranger sister will remain in my visual forever.

Is Love a destroyer ?

This question often creep in my mind, is Love a destroyer ? Can Loving someone leads us in a situation where we are ready to ruin our life,our aims our goals. I will say no, loving someone can't take you to a path where one can eventually destroy himself/herself. One who destroy himself/herself doesn't love enough oneself. (One who try to destroy oneself might not be in Love but in Infatuation). Before loving someone to that extent one has to learn to love himself/herself to the fullest. One who has learned the art of self loving can't ruin his/her life.

Then why so many people destroy themselves in love, I will say because they don't have any other major goals or responsibilities in life. They have given priority to love despite having such beautiful life to do something more constructive. ( Perhaps they have not understood the holiness of love !! ). It's always harmful for us to give the emotional remote control of our life to someone. Don't ever let someone decides your fate or make you sad or happy.It always good to channelize your energy. Even if one does not get the love of his/her life has to accept the fact and then he/she should try to channelize the energy in some other direction.

I agree that not getting love of your life gives a deep scare in your heart, but you have to get the biggest strength, determination to do something extraordinary from that scare. Love is a beautiful and enlightening feelings. Deeply Loving someone gives you the courage and patience to succeed in the world. We have so many example of deep love like Radha and Krishna, they never got married but whenever their is a topic or discussion on love,first name came to our mind is of Radha-Krishna.

“ Never fall in Love, Always Rise in Love.”

Can time frame change the course of friendship

When I was in class 12th, while reading covalent bond in chemistry paper-1, I wrote a phrase

"Friendship is like a covalent bond,
where two persons which are in friendship
have to share Sorrow,joy,happiness between them."

At that time we friends were unaware of words like importance,expectation,possessive,sentiment,emotional fools. We used to be simple friends even without facebook, mobile phone ,email we were in touch with each other.

But as the time progresses, we came to know the new definition of friendship.

Now Each and everybody gets busy as well as happy with his/her life. With the increasingly demanding life, we loose contact with our friends over period of time.

Now we know about them through the status message of facebook.

Friendship also suffer from importance ignorance negligence we become friends with someone who takes us for granted.

Initially they seems to be very good with us but as the time progress and they get close to other persons, they start to take us for granted.

Their comes the role of expectation, If anyone who is in friendship and they are treated with lower importance there comes the rift between two persons.

---> We are human being we tend to have expectations, we are not living a ideal scenario where we are free from such emotions,feelings. If someone shows his/her feeling, can he/she be called possessive,sentimental,emotional fool. At the same time we are also possessive about our non-living companion like clothes, watch, gadgets etc., can we be categorized as emotional chap.

----> Time frame can change the course of friendship, there will be very few with whom you will be as it is as you were during the period of friendship bonding.

-----> Somebody for consoling says that " That's life, let it be..."

but how we can let it be, don't one can feel betrayed, hurt will not there be some pain,of course it will hurt a lot,it will takes a hell out of us.

-----> So in order to keep a friendship long lasting one has to value the friendship bond. We have to treat friendship as valuable and precious part of our life.

And whoever take you for granted remind them following some lines from ghazal by Jagjit singh

“ Dost mil jayenge kayi..na mile ga koi mere jaisa “

Maut ka farman

Har koi aapna hume jajbati
keh kar tal ta gaya,
isliye maine aapne aarmano
ko dil ki gehraiyon mein daafan karta gaya,
armano ne pucha hamara kasoor kya tha,
maine kaha kasoor na mera tha na tumhara,
bas mere kuch aapno ne
tumhari maut ka farman jari kiya tha........

Mohabat-Nafrat

unhe hamari har baat pe aitraaz hai,
hume un k har aitraaz se pyar hai...
un he hamara kala rang napasand hai
hume un k hoto pe kala til bahut pasand hai....
unhe hamare chote kad pe sharm aati hai,
hume un k lambe baalo pe naaz hai,
fark bas itna hai........
un ki nafrat se hume mohabat hai
aur unhe hamari mohabat se nafrat.......

Meri aur tumhari wo mulaqat

Meri aur tumhari wo mulaqat ,
jo akhiri ban k reh gayi,
tumhari bolti aankho ki khamoshi
jane kaise tumhara haal-e-dil bayaan kar gayi,
band hontho se judai ka
wo dard jane tum kaise keh gayi,
ab tak hairan hoon maine itni badi bewaafi
itni waafa se tum kaise kar gayi.....